Wednesday, April 25, 2012
My baby diary of the second month (the seventh week)
english give brave to show my feelings
in my opinion,readers won't know what i want to say ,if i write it in English.though ,it's wrong.
i love a girl ,she is in beijing.very far from me.usually,i will use the qq to talk with her sometime,also,i will give her a call,if i want to hear from her.but,that's a problem on me,i don't know whether she loves me or not.so ,sometimes,i will be a bit sad,and at a bad mood.
although i have some one to show my feelings,but ,someting i won't tell them ,because they are aslo girls .my great friends.in one of theirs words,we are the friends who shares the sweat and bitter.the girl i love ,as one the friends i have.
the problem i worry is that,i don't know how the girls thinks about,cheese me as a best friend or the lover.
A Letter to Chairman Mao
errors on account of petty bourgeois fanaticism. Bewildered by the achievements
and enthusiasm of mass movements in the Great Leap Forward in 1958 like many
other comrades, I would intend to step into communism in the shortest possible
time out of ultra-left tendencies. Eager
above all to succeed, I forgot the mass line and the realistic approach summed
up by our party over a long period. Ideologically, the relations between
strategy and measures would be mixed up besides those between long-term policy and current steps, the whole and parts, the large collective and small ones etc. As Your Majesty calledThin sowing, high yield, and bumper
harvestCatch up with UK in fifteen years.If we had studied these strategic and long-term policies and combined them with the situations faced, our work
would have been arranged both actively and properly.
site requirement for health safety executive
ambulances: strechers in charge of responsible person. 25+:notify ambulance authority of site details within 24 hours of employing more than 25 persons
first aid room: used only for rest or treatment and in charge of trained person. if more than 250 persons employed on site each employed on site each employer of more than 40 persons to provide a first aid room
shelter and accommodation for clothing: all persons on site to have shelter and a place for changing,drying,and depositing clothes. separater facilities for male and female staff. up to 5 where possible a means of warming themselves and drying wet clothes; 5+ :adequate means of warming themselves and drying wet clothing
rest room: drinking water,means of boiling water, preparing and eating meals for all persons on site. arrangements to protect non-smokers form tobacco smoke. 10+ facilities for heating food if hot meals are not available on site. 10+ facilities for heating food if hot meals are not available on site
washing facilities: washing facilities to be provided for all persons on site for more than 4 hours. ventilated and lit.separate facilities for male and female staff. 20 to 100: if work is to last more than 6 weeks- hot and cold or warm water,soap and towel. 100+ work lasting more than 12 months-4 wash places + 1 for every 35 persons over 100
sanitary facilities: to be maintained,lit,ventilated and kept clean. separate facilities for male and female staff. up to 100-1 convenience for every 25 persons 100+ convenience for every 35 persons
Qingming Festvial (missing)
Now i often said to my friends you should cherish the time with your parents when they complain their parents with blurr or preciseness. Since we don't know some day they will leave us to another world, and we can do nothing even if we indeed regret the act to them.
I saw a calculation formula to calculate the days with your parents in their rest life. Most people like 80s 90s are far away from my parents and work at different cities. The time staying with their parents is becoming shorter and shorter as they growing up. If one has twenty days to company with his parents one year, so presuming his parents has fifty years in the world., then there are one thousand days to stay with them. It is less three years to live with them if we converse the year for the unit . How short the time is!
At the same time now with the holiday coming, news about qingming is sounded everywhere. There are two news catch my eyes. One is the expensive graveyard fee. Another is someone don't come back home to waliyambi,looking for a stranger to visit his family's grave. There are no doubt that I don't agree with the deeds they are doing in this day. One hand, I think the government should take some measurement to control the dear graveyard fee. Or just like what some old people said, they dare not to die duing to the expensive graveyard fee. How dreariness it isOn the other hand, I think we should put the feeling missing the best relatives into our deep-hearted instead of asking sb to do that replace us.
Hehe It is some opinions I have this day.
Patrolwomen with Advanced Academic Degrees
Street bordering Jianguomen Street. They are the crew of a
special police detachment on the beat of Central Capital District, East City Branch
Public Security Bureau. They are the first policewomen patrolling with a bachelors degree at least. The average age of them is 25. They mainly offer directions to
tourists. They not only patrol but make a scene as well.
Just complain for a while
We had sung the song for several hours last night in order to perform it in todays English class. But its so difficult that we still cant follow the melody, and we also had difficult in pronunciation of words in English songs. Its a real challenge.
I was nervous but excited for it would be my first time to sing an English song. And I found it interesting to practice singing English songs because it help me a lot in reading English paragraphs. I ever read tasks in a common way like all Chinese do, in other words, I read them word by word. But now, I know more about how to link words when reading.
Well, though to sing English song was an interesting activity, we were still hit by the result.
The teacher said NO to our performance. She gave us several reasons like that our voice was too light to be heard clearly. I felt sorry for it. But for ourselves, we had sung very loud. In fact, I have been ill since last week and I couldnt sing very loud, while my partner tried her best to harmony with me.
However, our expression wasnt understood. The teacher said it was that we sang the song with a paper full of lyrics that counts, its against the rules.
Oh, my god!
How could you ask a fresh singing learner to sing so difficult a song without lyrics? And we even learned it for only one night! Had we chosen a topic to talk about, we surely could perform it without any papers. But
Ok I admitted doing it badly, but why couldnt we got half of the mark as reward for our preparation or my partner gets the whole mark and I can do a new task instead
We tried to communicate with the teacher. Unfortunately, she refused to accept our solution method. She insisted that we do it again together, or, neither of us would get the mark.
Wellmaybe the teacher was right, we need to obey the rules.
However, in my opinion, the purpose to organize the preparation before classes is to develop our interest in English studying and warm the classroom atmosphere. So I didnt think the rules were so much important here.
Am I wrong?
Oh, well. Forget it, forget it. Everything has gone and I am just complaining for a while, purely.
No other meaning.
White House in my mind
The house price is far from a reasonable level,
Recently, , the mouthpiece of developers jumped out again saying something all my eye. This guy certainly wont make a good fart as he has been being against the center governments property control policy. Being a communist party member, this guy never speaks for the public but for a few bourgeois. He doesnt feel shame to do so. I wonder whether his leadership of the party doesnt dismiss him out of the party. Such a guy is the disgrace to the communist party, isnt it?
Anyhow, this guys folderol was a foretaste of that the developers had encountered a large difficulty. It was told that more and more developers cant sit cross-legged with aplomb. They have felt a great pressure on their backs. The market is in stagnation and the banks ask them to pay back the loan and local governments dare not back them openly. Most house-buyers-to-be with folded arms turn blind eyes to the houses on sale. They are looking at the house price come down little by little with relish as if they were watching a clowns performance. Only a few so-called rigid demand buyers have to drop into the developers trap unwittingly. I wonder who can cure these coots irreparable trauma.
To tell the truth, we house-buyers-to-be must form a united front to force the developers to slash the house price. At present, we mustnt slot recklessly our money into the developers pockets. The present situation is on our side as the center government emphasizes time and time again that the house price must be cut down. Meanwhile the repulsive foreign hot money is being drawn out of China. What we need now is the patience. We mustnt express our eagerness to buy a house but let the idea marinate until the developers cant hold themselves. Wed better click our inner abacus coldly. So long as the property control hasnt made great headway, we must wait and see. I get wind of that in the first-line cities, many developers are discounting houses though the discount has no charisma. Anyway, the bumbling discounting is a telltale sign that the developers cash chain has been tightened. Their doomsday is around the corner. Even so, the property control hasnt been successful and we must submerge the thought of purchasing a house.
[Help]A problem that faces me in my English study
Safety, Health and the others
Soon after my husband heard about this accident, he threatened to throw my MP3 away if I insisted wearing it on the bike. Unfortunately its one of a little hobby I could hardly give up, so these days I just walk to my office. This twenty minutes walking brought me a surprisingly experience. I never realized that pear flowers had already smiled in full blooms on the road and there was a field covered with rape flowers under that bridge. The weather was so nice and the air sent a scent of promise, freshness, and even happiness. My stiff muscles dont feel so stiff after twenty minutes movement. I came to realize what I had lost when I stopped daily work-out a few months ago. I start to pick up my morning yoga and so far its not bad.
For the last month, spouts of headache and insomnia had clung to me like a very bad perfume. Nothing serious about it, but still I need to do something about it. Perhaps a healthier life style is a good start.
rosiness
The sunshine and the sleepy
My office desk is near the window where i can see the sunshine and the outside scenes, Many cars parked in the boot of the office building also around the office building in the south and the east the more and more buildings are prepared to be built ...
The sunshine is very warm and make me some sleepy , the eyes can not open because of the sleepy and also the back of the body are some lazy this afternoon since the sunshine straightly shines it , the mind is without anything, just feel sleepy and the head are not as normal high just lower and can not raise for the sleepy.... Also the hand are not on the keyboard any more just want to lie down the head on the desk with the hands underneath ,This state last about an hour and i need to work ......That maybe called the season sleepy feel ..
With the good sunshine a walk maybe a good choice ...but now i can hear the louder wind noise than before...How could the weather so good but with the big wind ....
It is really so sleepy and with the sunshine ..Have a good rest these days maybe i will get used to the sleepy some days later ...
One day, you will fly like a bird in the sky!
Never thought of giving up, no matter how many difficulties you will encounter.
An old proverb goes like that:everything is difficult before you do it.Now my job is foreign trade sales,I remember when the first time I entered into this industry,I felt very excited, after all ,I could do my favorite job finally,I had always been eager to this job for nearly two years.But when I was engaged in the posistion, I begun to realize that it's really very difficult,many technical terms need to be remembered,many sales skill need to be understood.cause you need to know how to communicate with your client effectively,the most difficult I though is how to find client.of course, there are many other difficulties, so at first time ,I often though the situation would be better if there were someone who can instruct me,but such though never comes true,I usually felt very harder during my job, at the same time, I also accumulated many experience when I try my best to solve a problem, so running away from the career never appears in my mind, I began to realize that no one can really help you in the business world,you need to find your own way.there must exist a method to do it well.so each time ,my heart sank into my shoes,such thoughts like you will make great achievement in your current job would encourage me most,I guess thats may because I really love my current job.now, one year later.after many time trying, I felt its not very difficult than the first time, at least, I gradually know how to do it.
I don't how many people have saw the film of the legendary of 1900,there was a dialogue in the film went like that , The voice of the sea, it is like a shout, a shout big and strong, screaming and screaming. Tell you that, Life is immense ! Can you understand that? Yes ,life is immense because of your choice,when you choose to do one thing, please don't give up easily,cause everything is difficult before the first time you do it.when you try your best to do it many times with your heart, I'm sure you will find the best method. The premise is no doubt,apply yourself assiduously to the work.One day, you will fly like a bird in the sky!
Never Give up
The Auxiliary Function Of The Internet In Second Language Acquisition
The Auxiliary Function Of The Internet In Second Language Acquisition
Abstract:In recent years, the Internet technology and resources are becoming more and more convenient for English learning. To look for the theoretical foundation of the auxiliary function of network technology in foreign language learning, the searchers try studing it from different angles of theory research .Among them, the second language acquisition theory is one of the principle of learning foreign language that must be based on in researching.To accomplish the process of language acquisition, it must have the environment and language input. Therefore, creating a language environment and providing language input are becoming naturely to the extremely important conditions of the second language acquisition process, and network resources and technology as rich language and text information carrier has become the second language acquisition auxiliary good help. This paper mainly on English study as an example to discuss the Internet in the second language acquisition auxiliary function. And as carrier of rich language and text information, the network resources and technology has become right hand of the second language acquisition auxiliary . This paper mainly takes the English study as an example to discuss the Internet in the second language acquisition auxiliary function.
Key Words: Internet Network Advantages Second Language Acquisition(English)
21 century is the information age. Internet is an information transmission network consisted of global interconnected by thousands of computer networking, which is no finalize the design, without borders and no time limit, and it is also the biggest information bank which store the most abundant all kinds of material since human history ever. On the other side, we live in a world that like an ocean of information , with the rapid development of network technology, the Internet has become an indispensable part of people's live and study. The second language acquisition process refers to that kind of second language acquisition in having mastered certain native language system premise, but separated from the social environment of target language, so the Internet become one of the important methods for the second language acquisition.
A. The development of the Internet
The trend of the Internet
Internet has experienced three stages including research nets, operation nets and business. So far, no one in the world can know the exact scale of Internet. Internet is developing at an unexpectedly surprising speed. Today, Internet has changed the way of people's life and work gradually from all aspect . People can not only any time know about the latest weather information ,news and tourist information of that day on Internet, but also see the day's newspaper and the latest magazine, they can keep indoors to fry stock, shopping, spending and receiving e-mails all days, just click the mouse. Of course, the remote medical and remote education is also one of the enjoy.
The significance of the Internet is not its scale, but that it provides a new globe information infrastructure. Today, the world is going forward to knowledge economy, the information industry has developed into the new pillar industry of the word in developed countries, and the new source power to promote the world economy with the high-speed development,and widely permeates all fields, it changed people's thought and production and living ways fundamentally. Throughout the history of the development of Internet, I come to the conclusion that the trend of the development of Internet basically has the following several aspects:
1) Operation industrialization
2) Commercial application
3) Interconnected global
4) Internet broadband
5) More Comprehensive platform, intelligent of business
To sum up, with the trend of "Three Nets Fusion" which refers to the telecommunications, TV and computer enhanced, the future Internet will become a really more unity, more intelligent and more business comprehensive platform, now it can mix all communications business together, and promote the rapid development of new business for the information technology industry with a revolution.
The characteristics of the Internet
The Internet is interconnected by many network that belong to different countries, departments and agencies, and its users can share the Internet resources, also they can share their own resources open to the Internet. Follows are its main features:
6) Flexible access method
7) The flexibility of the network information service.
8) Integration of a variety of information of technology
9) Access convenient, reasonable charge
10) Information resources are rich
11) Perfect service function, easy to use
The importance of network education
Just in English teaching, the Internet network plays a very important role in it. We Chinese people learn English before mainly in the traditional teaching mode, the teachers are the center, but the students are in a passive position, it will lead to a lack of two-way communication, and it is difficult to inspire students' interest and subjective initiative. On the other hand, "unified type" teaching is also one of the disadvantages, the teacher is facing the whole class, he(she) cannot satisfied all the requirements of students of individual character difference, so the information provided by teacher is very limited. While the network teaching can solve these problems. First, it can accomplish truly personalized teaching and individual learning aiming at each leaner's characteristics by using the theory of the computer AI and according the principle of personalized. Second, we can use the technology of computer virtual reality to build a virtual study area on the real environment and realize the virtual hands-on activities. And then, it can focus the most excellent teachers on online teaching, so as to realize education resource sharing, and improve the quality of teaching. Finally, we can use the network to update teaching curriculum and teaching content. The Internet network make the teachers and students over school wall, across space and time, more importantly, it greatly develop students' view, and provide large amounts of assistant learning resource directly related to students' courses.
B. The advantages of learning foreign language online
Large amount of information:
Network provides lots of original material about English original, the information are both real-time, also have through the different historical periods. For instance, you can watch the live broadcast of public hearing held by the congress of the United States, also can easily view many literature classic in English and American. All these authentic English is undoubtedly an inexhaustible treasure for language learning and the researchers, with the Internet you don't need to take a lot of time to search the library, and what you do is just click your mouse and download the required information. If you want to see some of the original English words of newspapers and magazines, you can browse http://www. zinio. com or http://www. pressdisplay. com, in which there are lots of magazines and newspapers about English countriesOf course, there are a lot of free online news sites, such as http://news. google. com, it is a very good choice; If you want to study English web pages, you can use the English version of the search engine, like http:// google. com, replace the Chinese key words with English, then thousands of English web sites or web pages will appear on the screen this greatly facilitate the researchers' study.
Several streams of network study choice:
Today, the demand of the English teaching is growing, and necessary conditions of English learning and sufficient network learning resources are in short supply, people can make use of network to create virtual learning environment. Although the traditional learning environment are aalso trying to design scenes to spire the interest of students' English learning and encourage students to participate in the performance, but these methods have more or less limitations of exisiting, they cannot come true and effect as network offer virtual environment. There are more than 250,000 electronic school set up on the Internet in China, so students have a lot of learning ways and channels.
Independent foreign language learning online:
Because of rich network resources, students can study independently, they can browse some web pages with a lot of English, such as the background knowledge, the use of grammar, the humorous story, novels and so on. All these resources are in accordance with individual need of students. In addition, students can look for learning resources and learning environment on the Internet and take part in the study competition to promote their English communication. And on the Internet, they can directly understand large amount of knowledge that they want to learn but cannot get in class.
The expansion of the English application abilities:
Students can make use of online radio and film material to improve listening level; they can do some oral training in chat rooms of on MSN; they can also training reading and translation ability on electronic journals, magazines and newspapers; Email and Online Writing Lab is also very useful, they can use it to do some writing practice; Many English sites have all kinds of English tests and teaching softwares, such as CET GRE TOFAL and so on, students can use the Internet to improve grammar lever.
Reduce the embarrassment of students:
Some students usually have the psychological barrier of shy, fear and impatience on English learning, they are afraid of answering questions in class, because they fear that their very poor pronunciation and their weakness exposed before other classmates and teachers. This will cause them to lose the opportunities to temper themselves and be corrected by teacher. But if on the Internet, students can choose their own learning methods and learning progress, they can email, chat, and visit their interested web site freely. In addition, when using the Internet to study, students usually operate the computer independently, which help students overcome the strain of psychological phenomenon, so that can change students' learning attitude, improve the students' self-consciousness and self-confidence of learning, finally help them enhance the ability of language learning.
Online direct communication:
Present teaching in high school, because of the test to the ability of "said" has not carried out, students' interest in oral training is not high. At the same time, once the students go out of the classroom, there is no realistic environment with English communication. These directly affect the improvement of students' "said" ability. If on the Internet, students can use the chat room online or MSN to make some friends in English country, and chat with them online. By this way, students can learn idiomatic English and the intonation, meanwhile they can also know about the cultural knowledge background and customs of different countries.
C. The matters should be paid attention to when accessing to the Internet
The correct understanding of the Internet function:
Faced with the deluge of language information on-line, someone feel that they do not know what to do and from where to start learning. But some people think that as long as online training, and always deal with English, they will be proficient in language with out any traditional training like listening, speaking, reading and writing. This is a kind of dependent psychology, but in fact it is just not so. Take American immigrants for example, many American immigrants although in America for more than 20 years, their English is also unsatisfactory, they speak with thick accent and mouthful of wrong grammar and sentence. In real life, no matter how bad these immigrants' speech are, how many mistakes to make, just it doesn't affect communication, there is no one correct for them. This make those mistakes upon them happen again and again. This is also why many English learners of overseas returnees found that their English lever did not improve much in these years of going abroad. Similarly, it is wrong for those people just depend on the Internet learning English and thinking the network as god for helping learning English well. The Internet offer us a good learning environment for us, which is an effective way of learning, but it doesn't mean that if is omnipotent, individual effort is still necessary. The Internet just increase the opportunity of language experience. If students want to master language, persistent effort is also very important for them.
Network mental health:
Psychological health is an important part of education quality. If students choose the way of network learning, they will spend a lot of time in browsing web site, when they feel sad, worry, agitated and lonely, they prefer to chat online with others. By this way, they can forget their psychological problem, actually it will do harm to the students' psychological health, so when using the Internet, students should keep self-control, and have the right morality of network and the right concept to the information, and do not browse the unhealthy web site.
Time limit on the Internet:
The Internet is a kind of help tool, it can help people to learn language more simply, but long time to face to the computer will affect people's body function, also reduce the quality of reading and learning, in addition, the network is not only a place where people can study and find material, but also a place filled with Internet games, so when using the network to learn, students should better limit the time online, and do never be addicted to the Internet virtual world.
Summary: With the rapid development of information technology, the application of network has become the important way of spreading knowledge. Network technology can provide diversification learning resources, and people can use these resource to develop initiative study, it not only adapt to the needs of the foreign language teaching, but also can improve students' integrated skills. Practice shows that when students are in the usage of network resources with learning initiative, the Internet can stimulate student's learning motivation, cultivate students' interest, and meet the needs of learning, also can raise students' ability to acquire new knowledge, to analyse, to solve problems, and to communicate.
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A duty to ask about your salary
Li Xiaoming, 22, a senior computer science major, dares to ask all sorts of questions in a job interview.
He wont hesitate to inquire about a companys merger or acquisition plans or its strategy in building brand reputation.
But theres one thing he often lacks courage to ask: his own salary.
I am afraid that bringing up this topic might offend the recruiter and damage my chance of getting an offer, he said. So I am shy and reluctant to talk about it.
Li, a student at Hebei University of Economic & Business is not the only one who feels this way. According to a latest survey by 51job.com, a major recruiting portal, more than 30 percent of job interviewees find it hard to raise the salary issue.
As a result, many end up in jobs without knowing exactly their pays and conditions.
Examples abound about those who learn too late that they lag behind their peers on a starting salary.
Job candidates need a realistic picture of their paycheck from their future employer. It is in their best interests, said senior consultant Chen Xi from Zhaopin.com. They have a duty to obtain that information before they sign any contract.
Career experts say that job seekers should not be hesitate or shy inquiring about the pay. However, they still have to do in a proper and tactful way.
Raising the pay issue too soon may turn away an employer or reduce ones competitiveness.
The sensitive topic is normally not touched upon in the first one or two rounds of interviews, Chen pointed out. At this stage, your priority is to prove your value to the company.
Once a company develops a genuine interest in a job candidate, theyll send HR personnel to negotiate the details, either in the format of a last round interview or a private talk about a contract.
What if the company has not addressed the issue directly?
Chen suggests that students seize the chances when asked Do you have any more questions about our company? or Anything else you want to know about us?, and bring up the topic naturally.
Most recruiters will not be offended by a candidates straight forward but polite manner.
Jia Lan, a recruiting manager from Yongche.com, a car-renting service portal, prefers candidates to lay the cards on the table.
It is fine that they state what they want and well see if we can help realize it, she said. It helps with decision-making.
On some occasions, graduates become tongue-tied when asked How much do you expect to earn?
Career consultants advise job seekers to do research online about the average salary range in a specific sector and a companys level within the industry.
This has occupied Lin Jinbing, a senior electronics major from Hunan Institute of Science and Technology. The 22-year-old, who wants to join a newly set-up IT company in Beijing, is busy surveying friends and alumni in similar positions. So Ill know what to expect form the company, he said.
Expectations and reality often dont match, especially fro green hands. Chen says capable students politely ask if its possible to raise the bar a little, but they cant count on that.
A salary package comprises more than wages. It also contains benefits, insurance, paid vacations, training, and even a free hukou, he said.
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My cervical spondylosis
acupoint injection therapy.The next time, I paid close attention to cervical spondylosis.I learned much of gymnastics to exercise my mucles to supply much more blood to my brain.Until now,I feel much better than before.
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How to integrate yourself into the unfamiliar environment?
Last summer, I took my daughter to Qingdao for travel. Even though one of my friends lives in Qingdao, who was busy and had no time to accompany us, so I and my daughter started an individual tour. We chatted with Qingdao natives and understood the local culture. W went out by bus instead of taking taxi, in this way, we could know more about the city. In the morning, we worked out with local people. All in all, we had a good time in Qingdao.
We can enjoy every day if we integrate ourselves into the unfamiliar surroundings as soon as possible.
reading books
The dialogue between Tree and moli4
sci-fi black comedy
This is the file named 'Iron Sky', a sci-fi black comedy by a Finnish director. This director's previous file 'star wreck' , another space spoof, was done over seven years on a budget of just $20,000.
Brisbane: A Chinese girl singing in the street
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Micro blogs help let off steam
This weeks TED talk is from Yang Lan, the well-known Chinese TV personality and entrepreneur. Here, she offers insights into the next generation of young Chinese citizens-urban, connected via micro blogs and how they will shape the future of China,
Traditional media are still supervised by the government. Social media offer people an opportunity to let off steam a little bit. But because you dont have many other chances, the heat coming out of this opening is sometimes very strong, active and even violent.
Through micro-blogging, we are able to understand Chinese young people even better.
While young people seem to be very sure about their participation in public policy-making, sometimes theyre a little bit lost in terms of what they want in their personal lives.
2012-3-2
My close girl colleague has got the permission of resignation from our supervisors yesterday, and she will leave me at the end of this month. To tell the truth, I am not such a careful person, and the key point I know is I am not interest in work, I never would like to put 100% effort into work. However, she is a considerate girl, and I depended on her at work for more than two years, Thanks to her, I had much time to surf the internet, thanks to her, I finished my work without suffering from heavy pressure before.
Right now I think of all these I am grateful for her great help in the past.
Our sales are in a slump at present, there won't have new blood to join in our corporation, and then it goes without saying, once she left, I have to deal with some part of her job and take more responsible for myself work at the same time.
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What's wrong with me???
The other day ,around 17:35my dad called me.but i was right doing the TEM4 listening part wearing the earplugs,so i was frightened by the unexpected ring,impatient and furious."do u have anything important to say?"i came to the point directely , hoped he would say no and i could hang up on him.To my delight,"nothing special"he said slightly"just want to ensure whether you remember to add clothes andblah blah"oh ,my god.I was totally irritated by him,i was not a girl any more and grow up now.so you see,i finished the call as quickly as possible.two days passed away,my dad didn't give me a call,i became a bit anxious,what's wrong with me.did i wait for his care.no way.but it seemed to be.All of a sudden,i found that everytime when my dad called me and cared me ,even though i pretended to be indifferent,i was always touched by his deep love.Throwing my minds back to the past years,it was him that tried to cheer me up and give me every bit of love that he can.so this time i determined to call him back.i muster up all the courge to phone him this moring,"hello,dad,how do u do today?"i became to do the things that he did for me in the past 22 years.obviously he tended to be a little excited ,for i haven't called him so positively, ultimately out of his expectation.this call lasted about 5mins,but it was the first time i hadn't felt impatient.
As experience grew with ages,i come to realize that we sometimes are too cool to our parents while we use up every method to flatter other transient guests in life .Speaking of parents,we take everything for granted and deprive everything from them.we just forget they are the ones who give us the most precious thing-life!
To be continue
Take you customer as your lover
Take him as my lover to wrote to him from my deep heart, thanks for many years help me, and give me the chance, and wish in furture we can be friends can help him in his business, not for want to earn money, just want to help him.
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Tuesday, April 24, 2012
My failure and great
After the exam, I have been lost myself. Life was decadent for me .Maybe I'm too tired and just need a rest .But I was still worried about my future ,that is my job , my study , and a worried thing ,the graduation design .It was too hard for me to keep my mind on one thing . When my doomsday came on , I have'nt been ready.That night I was stock and dull. The next days were just like a huge nightmare .I didn't know how long can I still live . I didn't know where is my future . I didn't want to do anything . I have lost belief in everything , especially myself . When I went to bed , I never want to wake up , because when I wake up , the score came to me .I' m afraid to wake up .Can you understand the feeling? Just sleep forever , don't ever wake up .But when I was waken , I didn't want to go to bed . I chat with my friends online with tears on my face. I seat in the lab in the midnight . Fortunately , there were two friends staying with me . I knes they were to prevent me from suicide . When I came back to my room , my roommates were all waiting for me .Thanks to them very much , who chat with me,stay with me and wait for me.
The next two days , I went out and knew that "If you don't open up , you're never to heal ."
With time going on , I'm still immersed in the past grief . Suddenly , I remember my first english teacher , Zhang Lilin , a charming teacher , who told us that "If you try your best , you will get more than you want ." And I think so .Even though I have been failed in the entrance exam for graduate students , I believe I get more in the failure .
write before go home
every day i will go to work and back home by virtue of public buses, more specifically speaking, it is the No.308 road public bus .i hate stinky flavour originate from wet wheather or somebody's feet or shoes.
i will go home soon, i am not unhappy, just feel loney because i am a new comer to suzhou, and haven't acquainted with any good friends.
REVELATION 9(10-12)
The first woe has passed;behole,two woes are still to come.
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good sport
A good sport is a easygoing person who gets along well with others even they're in a difficult situation. In sports world,a good sport is someone who palys fair and doesn't get angry or upset if they lose.At work,a good sport mignt be someone who doesn't mind working late to get a project done.A good sport at school might be someone who gets along well with everyboey and doesn't get to upset if they get a poor grade.
When the last time you had to be a good sport about something? Are you a good soprt when you lose at sports on in a game?
The first formal interview i have in my life
After serious preparations for the interview,i went to the company confidently.i didn't mean i was sure to get the chance but just had a try,sometimes luck prefered me a lot.It was not too far from my school,only taking me half an hour to get there.However locating the company absolutely wasted much time than expected.After asking couples of people,i finally reached there.
To an undergraduate student,the decent and spacious working place frightened me.i began to suspect my ability whether i could be qualified to work here.Admittedly,i was just a student.but all of these doubts went away when the pricinpal saw me and led me the reception
.He seemed to be in my age,tall but a bit fat ,wearing black glasses.do you bring your resume with u?"he questioned,"oh,sorry,i don't"i replied with my eyes looking directely at him.ok,let's come to the point.i have told you on the phone that you need to teach an ABC and definitely teach in English ,undoutedly,the job is very challenging,can you do it?"
It was my turn to answer all the questions.firstly,i cleaned my throat and adjusted my sitting position"well,i think certainly this is job which has highly requirements on the teacher.by this i don't mean i can't do it.on the contrary,i want to have a try.i could find there was some uncertainty on his face,so i said"could you please let me have a class now "he was surprised by my words ,but he quickily found that he was the interviewee,not me."ok,start".then i began my first English class
I don't know the result up to now,but the result is no more important than the process.Today i 'm so proud of myself for i have tried something totally diffrent but meaningful.i always believe that chances favor the minds that are prepared.what's more,experience of today worths a praise to myself!
To be continue
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REVELATION 9(3-4)
girl's day<>
in that condition,our school was also full colorful various of activities.and many institute came up with jocular declarations.just like "no matter who you wiil be someone's woman in the future,you are my girl forever".i saw a new in the internet that there was a class consisting of more than 40 boyes and only a girl.it was so amazing that the boyes spend the money togethered by per 50 RMB in buying a iphone 4s for the girl.haha.maybe the fortunate girl will be very thankful.
my classmate asked me to invite her to eat out at restaurant for it is his first girl's day in university.she also told me that she will not willing to receive if others invite her to have a dinner together.haha.how fortunate i am.so we enjoyed a nice dinner time.
i would like to take this opportunity to express my wish for every female ffiends.it is surely a fact that you pay a impotanr role in this society.female friends deserve owning benediction. happy girl's day.
Thank you all
I miss my family ,I even wanna a cry on mom`s shouler.But I would never do that to make her grieved .All in a sudden ,the sadness submerged me like the tidal wave ,and I even don`t know where the sadness comes from.
I listened to some music and have some cookies,Thank god I feel better now,I know I can heal myself very soon,haha,this is me.Sometimes life is tough,but after you going through it you might thank it.
I Have a Dream That One Day...
This is my dream when I start study English, I like the weather of UK. like the gentle men! I am luck to do trading with UK' business man, have a deep feeling for UK's man! The weather is most I eager to feel! This is my dream when I yong, until now, my dream doesn't come true! but my new dream is take my son troll on UK streat.
I have a dream that one day I can take my parents go out Shaaxi.travle by air to sea city ,like Shanghai, Xiamen, Hainan...
My parents are very hard working everyday! Every day get up early to earn money! they earned money by thier physical strength. so everyday very tired. for more than 30 years working, never stop working one day! but I want to let them stop earn money, just sleeping ,eating and do a little work if the want ......
I have a dream that one day my dream come ture!
COME ON Joy!!!!!
Come on!
2012-3-19
As I know, everybody, especially men, likes to save face and usually pursues name-brand or fashionable clothing in modern times, hence I feel it rarely for my best friend to have such precious virtues nowadays.
And compared to him, I blush for my superficialness, because everytime whatever clothes I wear in his presence, he always praises unreservedly my dresses look good, on hearing his words, I feel a little embarrassed in the heart and react immediately: "Do you know how much these clothes are? They are cheap and poor quality."
And at such time, my best friend replied to me :" I know you would mention the price, but I just say the style of your dresses are beautiful." Hehe.. I am ashamed for myself superficialness once again.
I remember my best friend ever saying something like this: my mom has ever said to me the life type one person owning depends on how much money he has got." I completely agree with this view, and honestly, it does influence me to some extent as well.
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There is one point I also have to mention here is, my best friend doesn't know how to refuse the requests of others, and sometimes he chated with friends or classmates on QQ in late night, thus I hope he could take his health into consideration and no longer stays up late to chat in the future.
2012-4-4
I guess it must be a quarrel happened to a young couple . the old man said with a smile. Alas, when you and I were young, we always had altercations, however, I cant remember the last time when we had a quarrel? The old woman said.
The more I heard, the angrier I grew. How could it have such persons in this world? I felt sick for I cried in sorrow, but they still made sarcastic comments in front of me. I disregarded them and continued to cry, however, I still heard their conversation.
The old man said: When we were young, you are so stingy and bossy. And due to the disagreements between us, we always had quarrels. I wondered why you had a sudden change and became tolerant one day. The old woman said: have you noticed the big bottle in the room?Surely, it was your treasure, and you never let others touch it. That bottle contains slips of paper. I made notes whenever I had a quarrel with you, then put the slip of paper into the bottle. After doing this, the anger in my heart would almost disappear and I could speak with you calmly.
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I forgot to cry, as I was deeply attracted by laughter and conversation of the old couple.
Suddenly, the old man whispered to the old woman:Shall we need to persuade her?The old woman said with loud smile: No, as we have given her an empty bottle, and as long as she knew how to use it to contain those unhappy things in life, then I thought she would understand how funny it was for her cry of today.
After I heard the sound of their footsteps faded away, I raised my head and wiped my tears away. And thinking of going to buy a big bottle for myself, I smile unexpectedly.
Journey to Chengdu
This journey means much for me. For one thing , I make a decision when I'm back. Because during my travelling, I will have enough time to think about my life, my future. For another, I'll be relax, not only my body but also my soul. In the past few days, I was really tired. My life, as long as my work didn't go very well. Thus, I need to rest. Last but not the least, Chengdu is really a perfect place for travelling, with famous mountains,delicious foods and historic heritage. It's also a city full of beauties. Life in Chengdu is really different from that of in Qingdao. CD people lead a comfortable,leisure and cozy life. Many people play mah-jong and drink tea in the streets or in the park. Their rhythem is very slow. People there don't think too much about the big house, the luxious car nor the decent clothes. They choose to have their own life. They are really good at enjoying their life. For this point, I should learn from them, slow down my steps and realize happiness is of great importance for me.
For what ?
Little Doctor
Mum, is that so bad? My four year old son sounded genuinely worried.
I am OK, I just need some sleep. I managed a smile, trying to soothe him.
Dont worry, I can figure out something. You would soon feel better. He replied with all the confidence and authorities a four year old could muster up.
I tried to ask him whats in his mind, but another wave of pain shot like a nail through my head and I had to close my eyes. I could hear him fumbling around the bed. Thinking he couldnt possibly cause any big damages, I decided to let him go.
A few minutes late, he crawled onto the bed to check on me: Mum, do you feel any better now?
Hi, honey, just a bit fuzzy. What were you doing there? I asked.
I placed all your bills on the floor! They would ward off all the bad germs. You know, you arehe frowned, searching for a big word, and finally found the right one: you are infected.
If my head didnt hurt so much, I would give it to a laugh. I guess thats where that a good mum would get distracted by such a loving gesture and miraculously forget all the pains. But I am not that good. In fact, my headache even got worse, and I tried not to think too much about all the messes on the floor. Under such situation, I did what a mother would normally do---I lied: Guess what, I do feel better now. You are such a good doctor!
Thats all the encouragements my son needed to further his practice. Mum, wait, I can figure out something more! He rushed out to the door.
A few minutes later, he rushed back and crawled onto the bed again. This time he handed me some coins, Mummy, thats for you! he said cheerfully and handed all the coins to me. I was all confused this time, whats in his mind? Trying to bribe my sickness away? Not enough? I can find more. My son said eagerly and a though came across my mind. This time, despite my splitting headache, I laughed. About days ago, my husband brought home his bonus. I gave him a kiss, and he said teasingly that I could get all my kicks at the sight of the money. And expect a four year old to overheard everything and expect him to take everything word for word!
Honey, I do feel much better. Thanks
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The idea behind wearing a suit and dress shirt without a tie has been around for some time. It has become increasingly popular as a form of smart casual dressing.
Its often the fashion choice of movie stars and politicians. How do you pull this look off?
First, make sure your shirt collar is stiff and fomal, and can stand up on its own without the support of a tie. (Softer, lower collars tend to collapse in on themselves when undone.)
Leave the collar button undone. At the same time, your suit needs to fit without extra cloth flapping about. The rest is all about the way you carry yourself.
Very formal occasions such as official banquets and funerals still require a tie.
New marriage, New life
Put forward for leaving
I want to go to American enterpriseand improve my English.I will give our one monthI hope that i can go to it
Are you give some advicethank you
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The train of life
When we meet someone , we should cherish our every moment to enjoy the time with them. When they became our strangers of life, we should remember them , for they have ever acompanied with us, and gave us some bitter and sweet memories. All in all we should cherish everyone who get some communications with us, for we don't know at what time we will get off from the train of life. Once we get off from the train, we should have something worthing our remembering rather than have nothing to look back.
The Internet Is Stealing Your Time
Theres little question that the web has made our lives more productive. We can work at the office, at home or even on a park bench, so long as theres good WiFi access. We can Skype or text someone instantly, rather than hoping someone picks up the phone or bothers to transcribe lengthy voice mails. If you need to look something up say the population of the city of Astana, Kazakhstan you dont have to track it down in a library book but just ask Google (the answer is 708,000, by the way.) Like they say, the Internet puts the world at your fingers.
But all that instant global access may be coming at a price. If you can work anywhere, then you can work everywhere, and people are increasingly expecting exactly that. If you always have a smart phone at reach, you can never really turn the phone ringer off for an hour or two of peace. And knowing thousands of new facts is not the same thing as learning, or understanding what they all mean. Once you get a taste, its difficult to sip from the fire hose that is the web.
Which makes one wonder: if the Internet gives us freedom, does it take our time?
Mood
If i have worry thingthings,i will want to hide myself all the time.Mabye i have a strong protecting myself consciousness.Anyway,i only hope i can bring others happiness.Nowadays,i think the most important is my family and my good friends.I just want to cherish them!Just let it gone!I need time to forget anything!I must change myself to close you! Just keep it up!
An evil woman was killed by an evil hand.
Diana was a married woman. She was in her thirties. Her husband didnt live with her as she was a spiteful woman. She always loitered at bars and made many fair-weather friends.
Tom was a single man but he had lived with his girlfriend Mary for several years. They planned to get married some day. Unluckily, Tom met Diana and a tragedy began.
Tom and Diana worked in the same factory. One evening, Tom saw Diana at the gate of the factory. He offered to take the latter to her home by bike. Since then they fell in love with each other and often made a tryst. By and by, Toms girlfriend found the adultery between Tom and Diana and always sent messages to Diana cursing her. Diana lost her temper and cursed back having Tom present. She told Tom that she would hire some thugs to cleave his girlfriends hands. The latter was very frightened and entreated the former to let his girlfriend off but was refused radically.
Some days later, Tom went to see Diana. He wanted to know whether the woman really intended to slay his girlfriend Mary. He concealed a sharp knife in his pocket beforehand. When he saw Diana at the tryst, he asked her if she could forgive his girlfriend. Diana got very angry when she heard that. She immediately called one of the thugs and asked him to act at once. Tom couldnt bear it then. He swished his knife and thrust Diana in her abdomen several times. The woman pitched herself into the ground and kicked the bucket.
Although Diana threatened to cleave Marys hands she didnt turn it into reality. Tom had no right to kill Diana even if the latter conspired to slay Mary let alone the crime hadnt committed by her.
Tom would be no doubt sentenced to death and he wouldnt appeal as he intentionally killed Diana. The punishment was inescapable. Because he was as poor as a church mouse, Dianas family couldnt acquire indemnity. A sheer evil woman was killed by a sheer ruffian. One cancels out the other. Now that Tom wasnt a ranker as he had completed his obligations, the martial-law court was useless. His rehabilitating was needless too.
Both Diana and Tom were piece of meat. Neither their birth nor their death will have any effect to the society. Their siblings neednt ask probate attorneys for help as neither Diana nor Tom left anything but an indelible shame.
My experience
I find it hard to keep inner peace in society . There are several reasons. In school, we want to be more attractive, wear better clothes, have a more delicious dinner than others. In society, we hope that people consider us rich , sucessful and clever. To get that goal, we try to disguise our disadvantages.
Only tio be myself ,can I be superior to my previous self.
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2012-03-01
This job really i have did much at the former company, but for the reason i do not like the atmosphere in the former company, i left and found the new one..Maybe just like what my friend's saying I am just have wasted a lot of time playing and do not have a busy time like today i have past. Maybe what i need to do is calm down , do the easy things repeat and repeat .
The work time are five and half a day, It is long than most my roommates in college and most friends , Most of them have two days weekends, They can have a good plan when it is Saturday.Maybe we can advise the manager to reduce the time from 5.5 days to the 5 days, actually the 5.5 days are not very good, we also need to get up at a early time.
Tomorrow the life is still going.The work is still need i do ...So just take it easy and have a good rest and start the new life ....
Always i should know , things will be better, when we get used to the new life changing one seems a threaten or take some risk to do the change....
Did i need to change for a new job?What i want to say is to enter a new area finding a different one job which are not the same with now what i am doing for...
Confused life with me and confused altitude towards my life ,even i just want some good ones who can point me where the bright road are and which one is suit for me ,Some time i think i need the help of the one who are done best in the industry....Maybe they have the same confuse about the future like me ...Maybe what i want is just simple but difficult to find..Anyway, I think it is better for me finding the dream life i always thinking about is the most important things.
Come on!At each end of the blog i have written , i always say this word to myself just want to encourage me ....
Go on.....
Because it was happend.
It so hard to judge right or wrong.
Forget what make you upset,pain.Forgive yourself&others.
What you can do is making a colorful life.
Accept what you have,what you don't have.Then change&improve.
You are not beautiful but you are very kind.
You are not good at communicate but you are a very good audience.
Go out from your memory,make friend with others...enjoy life...
Always remember take care of yourself.
First Female Governor
6800On February
15, 2012, Li Bin was elected as governor of Anhui on the fifth session of the eleventh
peoples congress of the province. She will be recorded as the first female
governor in the history there. Li said, From now on, Ill cast in my lot with the 68 million natives here where both the
Huai River and the Yangtze River flow across. First, well work together for
the development consistently. Ill devote myself to economic development, social
progress and peoples welfare in this region.
Office relocation(
As our financial department is different from other departments,we have lots of stuffes need to be packed,in the morning,more than twenty boxes of stuff have already been packed,while other department's colleagues just simply pack their daily office facilities,such as computer,desk,files and their personal effects.There are just three people in our department,all are females,to move all of these stuff are really above our bend,we can just help to do the simple but light ones.So our manager Mrs shu ask several boys for help from other department,they all glad to help us.It took us two hours to finish the remove.
In the afternoon,we are going to make up all these files,because the new office cant work order now,not telephone,not internet for today.To make me happy is that I wont take the elevator or up to the office step by step any more.Now on the first floor,its more easy for us to work.,just several minutes walk from the dormistory.Heihei,maybe Im a lazy girl.
The new office is beautiful and bigger than the former one,new office,new desk,new environment ,good mood and a new beginning..
One News From My Home Town- two years old boy was raped
I am puzzled why they rap a child, want to earn money? Yes, most of them want to earn money from child, cause in china, we still have the prejudice for girl! expecially in village! they love boy, cause mose of parents think boy can carry the family line! So there have the need for boy in the market!!! Sadness!
The other reason I think is couse our society. The poor and the rich man have a big difference !
The rich men are very rich, and the poor men are very poor! some time, they have no way to earn money, but the need money to eat, to live, expecially for education!!! they choose rap, perhaps they think this is the quickly way to earn money!
I am sad for the parents who lost child, and sad for our country when we can live in a peace,democratic society!
Never cruelly throttle your success by yourself. (v)
Again it is a topic on perseverance and persistence. Having experienced a seemingly endlessly dark and grueling process, people are prone to giving up before the true ending is uncovered, without knowing that only if they just insisted a little bit longer, he would have a warm and comfortable embrace with success. What a shame! If I were that person, I would feel regretful for the rest of my life. %>_<%
There is a Japanese Proverb which says: If you fall down seven times, simply stand up eight times! It is inevitable that people will fail and fall down sometimes. The most important thing is that they can get up bravely and insist on their spiny roads leading them to the imminent success. Only if you strive to get up, then youll never be a loser.
Now, are you ready to get up for the eighth time?
some words i heard these days
so in my opinion,make more money,make a better living,is a task,not a dream,because,dream sometimes can't work out,but task.in the other hand,task is one's duty,as parents need to suport our children,men need to suport their perents, husbands need to care for their wives.
so task is important,but dream is little.
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Soccer fever grips folk
The annual soccer league of South China Normal University kicks off next week.
Hu Xiaoqing, art school captain, went to the campus shop to pick up the team outfit. But Guangzhou Evergrande FC jerseys were sold our.
Guangzhous league championship last year reignited the citys passion for soccer. This was despite match fixing and gambling scandals which tarnished Chinese soccer. The fever also broke out on campuses with more students becoming fans and players.
You can see more and more students wearing the Evergrande or R&F jersey on campus, said Hu, 21, a junior majoring in environment art.
According to Hu, the school team recruiting new members every year. This year there were three times as many applicants.
Soccer pitches are crowded with more than 50 soccer player and students have to take turns.
There were only about 10 students playing soccer two years ago, said Hu.
According to Guangzhou Evergrande soccer club, 15,000 season tickets were sold on the day whey went on sale, most of them bought by students who queued overnight.
Taobao online store owner Chan Ye is feeling the heat too. In the last 30 days, the store has sold 433 Evergrande jerseys, four times as many as AC Milan jerseys.
We sold mo more than 600 Evergrande jerseys the whole of last year, said Chen. It has been a long time since a domestic soccer jersey was the most popular item, it reminds me of the golden days of Chinese soccer 10 years ago.
According to figures from the Chinese Football Association, more than 45,600 people on average swarmed into Guangzhou stadium to watch Evergrande playing at home in 2011. The number topped all Chinese super league clubs.
Students once crowded the canteen to watch English or Italian league soccer on TV.
But now half of the TVs are turned in to watch Evergrande games live, said Liao Yongjie, sophomore majoring in mechanical engineering at Shantou University
People used to say that Chinese football had no future and more students went to play basketball or other sports, but now you see more students interested in soccer.
Zhang Yu, of the sports department at Hunan University of Commerce thinks that soccer fever means more than sales of tickets and jerseys.
Chinese soccer needs to take root with the population as a whole and on campus is the ideal place for cultivation, said Zhang to Hunan Daily last week.
Young peoples passion for soccer is the most important thing.
English learning 5
I like summer best of the four seasons
He is three years older than I
Which do you like better, tea or coffee?
The sky became darker and darker
I want to sleep more
The plane rose higher and higher
Most of them like me
Most women like shopping
The book became more and more difficult
More and more Japanese go to China
More than 100 people came to the party
He has the most books in the class
Who answered most?
Bowl Full of Cherry Ham Glaze Prep Time:
Cook Time:
10 Min
Ready In:
20 Min
Ingredients
2 cups cherry preserves
1/2 cup red wine
2 tablespoons brown sugar
2 teaspoons ground allspice
Directions
Stir cherry preserves, red wine, brown sugar, and allspice together in a saucepan.
Place over medium heat and bring to a simmer. Reduce heat to low, stirring often, until glaze thickens, about 10 minutes.
Footnotes
Cook's Note:
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Nutritional Information
Amount Per Serving Calories:
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Working relationships can be tricky, especially if you are working with people from a different culture. Confusion can arise because they may have different attitudes and ways of doing things.
The atmosphere in the office of a Western company may appear informal and friendly. It might lead you to believe that there are fewer rules to observe. But it is misconception that there is a casual attitude in foreign companies.
Simply because your boss seems polite and easygoing it doesnt mean you can take advantage of his or her good nature.
Western managers like to appear to be friendly. They may invite you to call them by their first names will address you by your given name.
Bosses may try to be one of the boys (or girls)by eating in the canteen or buying sandwiches and coffee with other employees.
During conferences or brainstorming sessions employees will be encouraged to contribute their views and will be encouraged to think their opinion matters.
This may or may not be the case. Western bosses have learned from management gurus the traditional top/down style of management may not work well as well as a flattened, more democratic style of management.
Dont imagine your Western line manager or supervisor is your best buddy. He or she will be well aware of your comings and goings, what time you arrive for work, how long you spend at lunch and when you go home.
Many managers even have access to your computer and can watch what you are doing on your screen in real time, so take care, you are being observed. In some workplaces, particularly in China I have noticed, there is a culture of presenteeism. Some young employees think that putting in long hours will impress their managers or colleagues in a Western company.
It doesnt impress me. It suggests to me that you are efficient if you cant get the work done in the allotted time.
The American comedienne Lucille Ball starred in a long-running TV comedy series called I love Lucy.
She famously said: If you want something done, ask a busy person to do it, the more things you do, the more you can do.
Heres the corollary, known as Parkinsons law. It is named after Cyril Northcote Parkinson who first stated it in a humorous essay in 1955: Work expands to fill the time available. In other words, if you have an hour to complete a task it will take an hour, even though you could easily finish it in a half an hour.
It takes a good manager to recognize the strengths and weakness of each member of staff and their different capacities for work. Dont underestimate your boss.
The lady or the tiger?
opened it.
"Oh,no!!!" Everyone let out a terrified shriek. What a huge tiger! Behind the right door came out the cruel
tiger . It was so hungry that it immediately sprang upon the young man and tore him into pieces.
He was even not able to have a last look at his beloved princess. Blood
was everywhere. So was inside the princess's eyes. "Goodbye, my love. Why were you so sure that I was generous
enough to tell you the very door, behind which there was a little bitch who would
live a happy life with you?"the princess whispered. Her sight loaded on the left door, and she said
slightly:"and you,
poor girl. I am the princess in this kingdom. I get everything I want. If I can't ,nobody can." She slowly stood
up, went out of the arena with a sweet smile, which the young man loved most before. Glancing
at the sight of his daughter's backthe king smiled
and was pleased to find that his little girl could be a wonderful queen of the kingdom before
long.