Saturday, April 14, 2012

The ending of "The lady of the tiger"

The door openedevery people hold their breath.The princess's heart beat rapidly.A lady came out,she is so handsome.Everyone in the arena shouted glad hurrashs.Traditionallythe man should married to the lady immediatelybut he bow to the king and refused to married to the lady,he said,"In this trial,I dosent choose the tigerIt indicated that I love price is vocation.So I should marry to princess.It's god's decreeanyone can't violate it".The king have nothing to say,so he had to agree this wedding.Then,the prince and the man lived happily after then.

Graduation!!!

Graduation season always makes people sentimental. Thinking about leaving the beautiful campus and lovely classmates, we all feel sad and that's hard to say goodbye to our dear advisors and friends. I'm so lucky to have you in my life.

In the days to come, we will start our new journey, new beginning of our life. We will fight for our own. Many difficulties and adventure are waiting for us. I hope my dear friends all will have a promising future and live happily.

My son's registered permanent residence

My son nearly two years old now, still have no registered permanent residence! My son 's registered permanent can following me in my home town, but we live in Xi'an City now, we want to let him study in here. The problem is no Xi'an's Registered is not easy to study here!

So we try many ways to let him's registered here, but very hard!


I am so worried today!

March summary(

1I keep writting at least one or two blogs each week,totally wrote 8 blogs here this month.
2My mood in March just as the changeable weather.somethimes cloudy,sometime sunny,sometimes emotional and sentimental,while sometimes sensitive.
3My salary have been raised up from this month.
4I help to fulfill a poor girls little dream whom still sit on the wheelchair and bought three book for her,also spent the whole morning accompany with her on last Sunday.I took her out to the park to enjoy the nature.Its a happy Sunday for us.
5I went home for tomb sweeping on 24th to 25th March,and spent half day visisted my grandpa and grandma,half day for tomb sweeping.
6I bought a new cloth for my mother,which make her feel very happy.
7Im much busier than before,because another colleague have asked for leaves for almost the whole month.So I need to take over her work.
8 I have made a plan to travel to XiaMen on Qingmings holiday (three days) for relax together with several colleagues.

Exercise drive car

Yesterday i had a first for drive car in my past life time . I was very excited and tension . During the coach leaving , my colleague teach me how to park, i felt her skills were awesome , i don't know when i can drive like that .I hope that i can get the drive license as quickly as possible , Because i have to continue come true next goal .....

cold

Today is so cold ,in the morning I go out without wearing too much only made me trembled in the cold wind.When I am in the cold I only thought is ga back to get more clothes,but I not I stick to my reading.I found a warm place then getting my tasks,when I in the cold in my life I don't know I have the courage and power to go through it.At least I can't say it absolutely but I can now make my decision to make it.In the cold wind we want to get back this is normal ,as a human we trend to good things and avoid the ill effects,that is a nature of human being.So I would like to do is try my best to keep a balance with it ,I do what I should do and sometime maybe follow my nature when I need to relaxed.In the cold we want to get warm ,if we get too much warm we must be expect the cold.Everything has two sides what you see depend on the standpoint you have,I think this is good and you may not.All thing existed in the world is resonable because there is demand on them and there is people who willing to get them no matter it is good or not.What you can do just take seriously about your view and can change your views according the times.

Doing Nothing This Weekend

This weekend I did nothing. I just watched some TV, only fun and easy programs, chatted and cracked some jokes with my wife, had a long warm bath and then went out for a walk for about an hour. I simply refused to think about anything serious, giving myself a real-sense break. The only purpose was to relax physically and mentally. To indulge myself further, I even bought some of my favorite food---Meilijia pastries. Yummy! Just the thought of it still makes my mouth watery.

Life can be fun and meaningful in many ways. Life is not meant to be eventful to most of us. It may appear dull, but true life will never be dramatic. True happiness consists of little joys, which may seem very insignificant or even petty. It could be watching some TV with a cup of green tea after dinner, stopping and smelling the roses by the roadside or just being together with family. However, these small joys could be the most important things in life.

Ive been feeling tired for quite some time. Ever since the beginning of this semester, I have been teaching three classes. It seems nothing to young guys, but for me, a middle-aged man, it could be hard. Dont get me wrong, I didnt volunteer to do that extra work. I need money to make my life easier, but not yet to that extent. I was asked to and somebody had to do the job.

I dont know since when female teachers have outnumbered us men teachers. Nor do I understand why they chose to get pregnant almost at the same time. It is said nearly twenty girls are currently in the family way or have just given birth to a baby child. Our principal is making every effort to find suitable substitute teachers. Being desperate and a bit sensitive, she is afraid of any young girl coming into her office. Naturally, men teachers have to hold a little more than half the sky.

A wise person once said that doing nothing is an art. In the beginning I was a little confused. How can you call it an art when youre doing nothing? However, as time went by, I gradually understood the real meaning of that phrase. The secret lies in the difference between doing nothing and having nothing to do.

Doing nothing does not necessarily mean that youre idling away your time. It is your intentional choice to slow down or forget your work for a little while so that you can relax yourself and readjust your life. Therefore it is actually very productive for our future life. If you have nothing to do or no idea what to do, if you find yourself wandering without a clear aim like a headless chicken, it could be a signal that something is wrong with your life.

One fact we have to face is that many of us are too busy to accomplish much. More often than not, when were supposed to rest, our minds are still on other things. The consequence can be easily predicted: They cant work efficiently while they actually do their job and cant rest well while they should. In this sense, doing nothing can be an art, an art of living.

Lost a thermos

A college student was honored Emperor Literature
for his brush-written notice on a
lost thermos. Its common to post up a notice for something lost. However, at South
Central University for Nationalities a one-hundred-character-odd notice written by one of its students attracted the attention of
crowds of his schoolmates who praised it highly.

YesterdayFebruary 28, this reporter saw the notice on the wall of the boiled water room in
the Contemporary Students Dormitory Apartment Building. It consisted of two
pages of characters vertically lined on old-styled writing paper with divisions upright. It seemed the work for a
calligraphy contest in the regular-script and
running-hand styles with classic wording. It read,Recently, the light blue
thermos of our dormitory got missing at the water room If you find taking it
by mistake. Please return it to us as soon as possible. Just put it quietly
outside the door of Room 208 that we dwell in. Its said that the writers name is Wang Chu, a
major in Chinese language and literature and calligraphy hobbyist.

will get the headache thing this afternoon

Today,our company want to loading two containers in FOSHAN .but our boss confirm the container is late yesterday .now is noon,but the driver still line up mentioned container,and the shipping agent tell me the truck broken again.i can not imagine what happens again .i think boss will craey this afternoon .and me also very headache because all the factory will calling......
my god !help me!!

Being a student

The last time I sat in a classroom was three years ago.And I have been studyed in a language school more than one year.Last year I was passed a test and became a student of sz university.My major is English.
My first English class was studyed yesterday,3th.Mar.After the class,I felt very sad for I couldn't understood what the tecacher talk about.That is a real chinese teacher!It was very different between chinese teacher who in university and foreign teacher who in language school.The foreign teacher wasn't talk about "".They just give you a lot of scene to let you understand how to use the grammar.I never understand the different between "have been" and "was ...ed"until I met a foreign teacher.
The lessons in university are more serious than language school.The language school need you to learn how to talk with people.The university need you know how to pass a chinese test. For example,if I wanna talk something about what happend when I was a child.I could say:"I am thinking about when I was a child,...... ".But in university's class,I have to say:"I am reaching deep within me --in that place in my heart where summer is an always time,for those special feeling that had my childhood" .I have no idea which kind do I like.But both of them are importent.Maybe the second one isn't useful for my life.But I need to study it if I want to be a culture person.
The most fantastic thing in this year,is being a part time student in a real university.In fact,I hate English before I went to language school.I thought I can fight all the language evil.That is why I need to study it.I am just a student.I am trying to write more.And wish everyone who had read this,study well.

Sedgenet

Some other sedgeheads and me have worked together to create an email system so we can email each other about sedges. I'm at the core of the group, and manage the email for the group. Not many people are specialists in sedges, and I'm the world's expert on the genus Carex in Arkansas! That's not hard to do. It is like being the world's expert on sedges in Jiangsu Province. If there's only one person studying something in one province, they are the best. Here's a few photos I posted to the group today.
02APR2012: Carex blanda growing by my hat!02APR2012: Only a botanist can appreciate the technical terms!02APR2012: More botany stuff!02APR2012: Cotter, Arkansas, USA. See other photos of this park in this album.

Query

I'll keep it short and sweet because I originally meant for this to be a MiniBlog. Onward!
For some reason the ads on these Chinese websites are extra adblock-resistant. And they're all incredibly inappropriate, my Chinese might not be that good but I know what a cartoon girl with a pulsing ... ummm ... upper torso implies. Does this bother anyone else? Ad banners in sites usually are relevant to information that sites contain or what users are searching for, it just seems like absolutely the wrong kind of site for it. We should be getting English improvement ads, if anything.

2012-03-16

After getting up, I got a call from a colleague who said he made a dream last night that I got married to a foreigner. Laughing, I said, are you kidding? And it was a really strange dream. Arriving the office, I heard them happily talking about the dream. And as soon as they saw them, they began to play a trick on me. Besides, H kept talking to us a more detailed story that had happened in his dream. His memory really surprised me, because we couldnt remember most of the dream after waking up. How could he make it? We cant figure it out and it doesnt make sense to further study it, right? As a matter of fact, when they have a rest, they would like to make fun of me out of that dream. I was even asked whether to marry that one, when I had a chance. They are really boring and like to make small chat, I think.. I was forced to ask their question and my answer is no. The most important reason is my parents. I have ever thought to leave my parents and why should we live near them? Sometimes, I can understand why parents are dying for kids attention and affection when they are becoming old. On the other hand, when they are older and older, they are like children again. I think that is why some aged men are often called little old children.

COMPLAINS 20120330

Working and living in Beijing is of great pressure for someone working as a technical staff in an government institudion. High house price V.S. normal payment. I like English, but I slowly lose patience to learning because of heavy pressure. It took me much time to read english meterials,listen to CRI radio programs, remember words, or so. However, I cannot find any progress or donot know what to do next. It confuses me. Even if I had time, I donot know what can I do to improve because there are so many meterials. I don't know whether I am so keen to have exllent english using ability.
Maybe haste makes waste. Maybe the best way to learn is contacting with my profession. Maybe I should take the course of learning serious , instead of the result. Maybe I should use short spare time learning useful English meterials that I encounter. Because of lacking the English enviroment, I have to write my daily life in oral type. It happens to me that I could go to English corner and join English club, and attend some international exhibition in Beijing on weekend, use the skype communicate with new friends. And In this course, English is just a carrier or tool, the information is essential. In the begining , use more communication skills and less language skills. Then ,reduce the using of communication skills and use more english. Communicate with UK/USA kids. Just do it , right now!

Friday, April 13, 2012

chat over a bottle

Last night I had dinner with one of my intimate friends-wang. we had some alcohol, a bottle of ten year mellow kouzi wine. We chated over a bottle, the dish were also palatable as well. With the pleasant mood we talked a lot, the subject was extensive, ranged from sports to politics, then we discuss the hot figure-bo who had been deposed from the position of communist party secretary of chongqing prefecture after the wlj incident. Wang said bo would not be punished any more and this thing would not go further. However beyond his imagination, bo is now suspended from his position on Chinas 25-member Politburo and the Communist Party Central Committee and is suspected of being involved in serious discipline violations

Free Like Wind

Dear Wind,
How are you doing? I haven't heard from you for a long time. How's your bussiness? Are you as busy as before? You are really a workaholic, aren't you? Don't forget there is more to life than just work.
You told me before that working itself was a kind of gains. Now it is the crown of the year, are you busy working on it? You are a diligent person who works heart and soul. Your job is your career and life.Once you told me that happiness lies in the journey ,not the destination.The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.Have you dreams come true?
Your passion in life, your thankful,optimistic attitude towards life imppressed me so deeply.Whenever i feel miserable about my future, whenever i feel at a loss, your words , which flow into my heart just like the gentle rain falls from the sky,dispel my bad mood." Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly".Do you know you gave me a pair of invisible wings,which lead me to fly freely?
Thank you, my dear friend! Hope everthing goes well with you !Free like wind!
your faithful,
Soar

My career life

I have been working for almost ten years since I started working in 2001. Frankly speaking, I have experienced a lot in work, and I have a deep feeling about work. Now I can deal with work easily, whats more, I really enjoy myself at work. So I am going to write some stories that happened to me in my career life. I hope the stories can benefit you.

The key word: the boss

We had a sales meeting on every Monday when I worked in an advertisement company. Sometimes, the boss also joined our meeting. At a meeting, Allan, the sales manager was making his work report this week and the plan for the next week. Allan, you repeated the words again. I had reminded you that A had the advertising budget and advised you visit A as soon as you could. Why you didnt make any progress in the case? Allan kept silence at that time.
I once worked for a foreign trade company. My job involved introducing new products and sending the sample to foreign clients. Later my boss assigned me a new task that I was in charge of conducting the survey on dealers about how our products were in market by calling up them. During that time I was busy in communicating with Korean customer online, and delayed that work. Until one day, the boss asked my task process, I answered: I was sorry. I would do it after I finished job at hand.
My boss went to Australia to spend the Spring Festival with his daughter early this year. After he came back, he worried that his mobile phone fee would be more than ever, so he asked the office director: How much was my mobile phone fee last month? The office manager answered without thinking: It should be as the same as usual. The boss still felt uneasy and asked me to check out online, finally his phone fee was 750 RMB,
much more than ever. The boss added: Why are you still careless since you have been working for years?
Remember this sentence: Put what your boss said in first place.

The Base Knowledge for Heat-Resisting Glass Cup

Does the glasswares wall thicknees thick or thin is good ?

For heat resisting of glassware it means the glassware tolerance for instant temperature (from the common temperature to high temperature ), if the wall of glassware cant stand the inner sides temperature inflate, and out sides temperature keep as commen temperature, this glassware should be burst.

Now, most of heat-resisting glassware is use the matereial of high borosilicate glass, coeffcient of expansion is lower 3.5(usually the safe coeffcient of expansion belown 3.8) and all of glassware should dealing by annealing(annealing funace, the glasswares temperater will be lower slowlly), it will be ensure the instant temperature difference. The comparation for high borosilicate glass in glassware is not high. Usally the heat-resisting glassware is not very thick, cause most of tea set glassware can keep heat by fire.if do too thick it cant good use for keeping heat by fire. And the glassware thin will not easy to burst. Cause the instant teperature differce will be lower.

Ome more important things is impact resisting . we cant do do glassware to thin to keep heat resisting, and should think the impact resisting. So the Heat resisting glassware should think carefully for glasss thickness, weight, shape, and using, or some expecially use!

The efforts to the speech

I was facinated by the speech of the famous, and I made a decision ever since the moment I felt the charm of speech. I had dreamed someday that I would stand onto the stage and make an exciting and interesting speech, the audience cry for my words, and when I finished, the long applaud pushed it to a peak. However, it was not easy, cause I was not so open-minded man, and even felt shy once I ment to have long talks with others. Fortunately, I did not give up over theses years, though it stopped many times for all kinds of reasons. I liked language and always wanted to express myself, both through speaking and writing. I had many hobbies, but I found that speaking was my favourite, even though I could not handle it well enough. All I needed was to make a plan and followed.
As simple and hard to do as it seemed to be, once found the right thing to do, I would never give up. I know I can do it in the end, anyway.

Some articles I recommend

You know that I subscribe an English newspaper called 21st century every year. I like reading English newspaper, which gives my study a hand. A good idea comes to me that I would like to recommend you some good articles from English newspaper. Lets study English together.

Taking the mystery out of magic will create new tricks
I am in favor of explaining how magic tricks are performed.
In the fist place, its evident that nowadays its open-up time. Any mystery will be revealed by someone.
Gone are the days when people think he or she is important because of something mysterious. Its an open world when everyone who wants to devote himself or herself to magic should have access to it and where everyone can reach his or her fullest potential if he or she wants to.
Second, I m relay bored when the magicians play the same tricks over and over again. Every time they appear on the stage, the audience can guess what they are going to perform.
Magicians, who bring no suspense or excitement, will be rejected by the audience sooner or later. Revealing how tricks are done forces them to come up with new magic tricks.
This will please the audience who are exposed to a lot of alternative entertainment.
Third, there are many magicians in China, so why did Liu Qian become a favorite?
I think what makes Liu stand out has nothing to do with revealing the tricks of his trade. What sets him apart is something like charisma and idiosyncrasy and appealing personality.
Based on what I mentioned above, I firmly agree to reveal magic tricks.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

One on my bucket list

Since I graduaged from colledge, I've always wanted to have a Master's degree, maybe even get a Doctorate. It's been my lifelong dream, and even on my bucket list. In fact, I put in a lot of hard work for it in the past year and took examination, but unfortunately I tried two times and failed each time. I felt bad for a long time that I could not be able to make my wish come true, beside, I batted the failure around in my heard and also picked friends' brain about it. After a serious thought, I found that there were several reasons behind it, including not work hard enough, not good learning method, think myself above my business and so on. Now I have a great fear of failure, many relatives and friends also talked me out of grasping post-graduate, whereas everytime I saw some dictas like as"The greatest test of courage on earth is to bear defeat without losing heart.", it has always inspired me.Call me crazy, I want to try it again, fight for the third time, at this moment, I will ask myself,"it is not as romantic as you might think, can you survive that?"

REVELATION 5(5-7) The Scroll and the Lamb

And one of the elders said to me,"Weep no more;behold,the Lion of the tribe of Judah,the Root of David,has conquered,so that he can open the scroll and its seven seals."
And between the throne and the four living creatures and among the elders I saw a Lamb standing,as though it had been slain,with seven horns and with seven eyes,which are the seven spirits of God sent out into all the earth.And he went and took the scoll from the right hand of him who was seated on the throne.

2012-4-2

There has always been a person, who plays the silent part by our side all the time. His cares and criticisms are soundless, even his smiles are just lips moving.
Yeah, the person I am talking about is our father. And undoubtedly, fathers love is a kind of breathed love, which doesnt like mathers, but still as great as mothers.
All children should remember the third Sunday in June is fathers day.
We all think mothers love is great, which tends to make us ignore the existence as well as the meaning of fathers love. However, for many people, the fathers love still has been influencing them in a special and calm way.
We even hadnt seen fathers figure before the sun has not yet risen in the early morning. Father is always busy and on the run for the sake of happiness of our whole family.
I really hope each of us often goes home to have a look, when our father is still alive. A greeting or a distance telephone, even a simple hug is the best gift given to father.
Fathers love is silent but valuable.

My End of the story in New college English 5 of the first unit

Then the young man walked to the right side
of the door. Because he trusted the princess completely. As he approached, the
comments in the kings arena were disappearing. They were all waiting for this sacred moment. Instantly,
the door opened, everyone held his breath, staring the door. Only the princess closed her eyes, no expression, and looked
coldly at the arena.

oh ,no ! "An amazing sound called everyone back to the reality,
and a ferocious tiger had already toward him. He hurried back, in his eyes was deeply despaired and hated to see the princess. Princess responded to his eyes with a
small smile, seeing her lover struggling for a minute and then become the Tigers food. However, the young man could not see the princesss tears in
the corner of her eyes. After all, jealous is a little more than love. "not mine, someone else can never expect to get. So death will be the best choice
for you." The princess said to herself.

The King smiled and left. He believed that his power is inviolable.

My career life

I have been working for almost ten years since I started working in 2001. Frankly speaking, I have experienced a lot in work, and I have a deep feeling about work. Now I can deal with work easily, whats more, I really enjoy myself at work. So I am going to write some stories that happened to me in my career life. I hope the stories can benefit you.

The key word: report work

The boss I cant forget in my life is the one I met in a foreign trade company, who is strict with us at work and always tells us how to do work in his way. To be frank, his attitude surpasses what we could endure. That time I was working in the foreign trade sector, I had to explain the content of every e-mail before sending it to our foreign customer, because the e-mail was written in English. Every time I reported him my work, he often asked some strange questions. If my answer failed to meet his demand, he would be unhappy.
My position in the current company is an assistant to the general manager. Sometimes the clients from Beijing come to Shanghai on business, I am in charge of booking hotel. One day last September, I asked for leave and went to Nantong visiting my friend. My boss phoned me and asked me to book a room in hotel for his friend. Because I was out, so I called Kim, one of my colleagues to do it.
After I came back, my boss told me what happened that day. Kim told me that she made it. I said: The client would live in Shanghai for three days. Kim got back at once and informed the reception in the hotel by calling. I added: The client would arrive at the hotel at about 9 oclock, for he had something urgent to do. Kim said with smile: I would make a call again. The boss was not satisfied with Kims work.
I suggest that you prepare yourself very well before you report work to your boss.

it is not enough though deeply love in heart

u r in Guangxi
i am in Hunan
can not reach each other
i send seveval messages to u for this white day but no replies
never mind
there must be something kept u for this while
during my nap,u call me that u drunk heavily for the sake of business matters
i realy can do nothing for u
this moment ,words are pale
maybe,after u wake up and fell better,we can talk sweetly as usual
but the turth is always between us that we can not stand side by side
everything is okay just like all is wrong

can we get through the gap ,can we walk through time,long time?
so much things we do not konw,when,how
we faced with the general problem as most of people
we guessed that we could treat it as usual as other daily matters
.....

wish u have a warm sleep,afterward,feel nothing bad at all

feel happier?

During global economic gloom, the world is a happier place than it was before the financial crisis began. That is the counterintuitive conclusion of a poll of 19,00 adults in 24 contries. Some 77% of respondents now describe themselves as happy, up three points on 2007 , the last year before the crisis. Since whenever 3/4 people agree on anything, "you need to pay attention to intensity in the results." But I feel earning money is more difficult during global economic crisis.

English SEO

Every webmaster all must have a solid foundation of knowledge, also is to learn the SEo firmly, so that it can do SEo, each SEo professionals are after thousands of, have enough experience, have a solid foundation of knowledge, must have also great SEo.First: to understand what is the SEO, its function is??????In fact now is really and many people don't know what a seo, they only know well site didn't effect, ranking couldn't get on. SEO to solve the problem which, let our website in the field of keywords ranking we belong to raise up, through a lot of long tail keywords bring flow, show our products and contact way, so that they can play the role of a web site, publicity function. What, then, are the seo? Simple said seo is called search engine optimization. Search engine optimization its engine search habits, to get better search engine rankings. The more the exact speak real search engine optimization must not only conform to the search engine's search habits, more should accord with the Internet search habits.The second: understand what is after seo, we will begin to learn itThe study is to learn it outside theoretical knowledge, continue to deepen our practice. SEO is not difficult. It is not a live, and more like a protracted war, and only has a strong perseverance, was able to win. Here we will go to some website in search of some material, on some idea about seo. After this, should create a own site, knowledge comes from practice can, find some competition is not very intense keywords to do, one step one step increase, and will continue to sweep the article, deepen their understanding.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

To be better than others brought great torture to me. %>_<%

To be the best one seems to be human being's intrinsic nature. Isn't it familiar that our parents always inculcate us to be the best one and to spare no effort in being one of the best ones, which in turn will not only make their children become alleged pre-eminent, but also more importantly make them to be proud? Most of us are good boys. We followed their ardent advices and began our painstaking journey to strive to be among the best ones.

In this process, when someone around you, especially the intimate ones performed (it's in term of study, work or even one exam)better than you, if you can fairly control your emotion toward their superiority? Don't you gradually secretly treat the intimate one as an enemy in term of study? Then something gradually changed,too. It's the friendship between the two person.

I'm s stupid and at once I experienced this feeling. So bad!!!

At the beginning,we were really good friends. But I really don't know from when our friendship began to deteriorate. But I did ensure that it was the result of the threat I felt from her resulted in all of this farce. I was just in a panic and fell in to a dilemma. I knew it's not right to have this kind of feeling, but at the same time I was really unable to restrain the feeling.

Unfortunately, I'm a really oversensitive person. The nuisance tortured my everyday. Every once in a while, I would remind myself of the deterioration between us. I was unable to scrupulously draw my attention on almost everything. My life was largely influenced.

Because of this, I thought a lot about myself, and I knew there must be someting wrong with me.

I introspected myself and even consulted the psychologist to solve my emergent problem.
It's true that to be the best one is an exciting and proud thing, but for one's life is so long that there are really a lot of other things to be noticed, to be felt and to be enjoyed. It's not worthy to do so. Moreover, to make progress together with others isn't a joyful thing? Why do I always have such lamentable feelings when I find others around me are better than me? Truly, the omnipotent enemy for me is myself. I should compare my own progress with myself but not with others. If I make some kind of process, it's a big step for me and I deserve to be happy and excited.

XXX and I do have a lot of beautiful memories in my deep heart, so I can't excise our relationship abruptly. Finally, I forced myself to become encouraged enough to invite her to have a deeply talk toward the emergency. I told her all of my thoughts(To some extent, I really think I'm brave!!!) and she made an agreement with me. At least I laid down the burdon. I hope that everything can be okay and our relationship can recover gradually.

Yeah, to be the best one is important and shiny, but please give yourself some space. Now how about trying to be excellent one toward yourself? The taste is also not bad!~

Do you think it is need to have a car in a city ?

I have a dream that I have my own car one day.In my hometwn, to have a cai is
common to a family.It is more convenient to go angwhere if I like.Besides,I can
drive relatives or friends if they need.By the way,it is so cool to be a driver.Though
the price of petrol is rising and rising, I still want to buy a car if I have enough money.
Maybe the traffic is heavy, we always catch up with a traffic jam and late for work,
meetings or appointments.I insist on my opinionHaving a car is necessary.


PS:This is my composition.I have finished it.Oh my ladygaga,it is so hard to do
homework,because I cannot carlm myself after the short vocation.I havent looked
my book more than two weeks.How hard for me!

The part-time job

Yesterday i did part-time job for saling microcomputer to my computer.I trained for 30 mintues on friday.I know that the computer Characteristics, function and so on.At the same time ,i am happy to saling.
I was go to the gome befor half hours.But i went here ,i felt disappointment so the leader of sale was not ready .A minutes later .the leader connect to shopping center ,then consultation.About 17 oclock ,the ground have been arranged.At last ,our went there.
One day ,i was not sale the computer.I think that the computer was saled that is hard .Beause ,one ,the computer was expercised;two,it was sale mode was wrong which it connected to television but why fond the Television partners;three,without the correct positioning of their brand,now the television is common interface.So,the computer was not saled.

Ruan Lingyu

Last night, I dreamed about Ruan Lingyu, the Queen in Chinese movies in 1930s. Exactly speaking, I was on the sets of her movies, in two of which, there is a woman who dressed in the operal costume, and I wondered if it was her. On the other hand, I remembered clearly she wad half naked with a baby climbing in her bare upper body and sucking her breast. I had seen her photos, and in my dream she was just like that. Finally, what was I doing on these movie sets?

My cousins blind date

My cousin is 31 years old and single. His sister is worried about him being single and introduced several girls to him, but he always said nothing and refused to them after he had a date with them.
Last weekend, his sister travelled around Zhenjiang with some women from my brothers company. One of them called Yemei is a beautiful, honest and polite girl. His sister wanted to introduce Yemei to my cousin.
I suggested that she could show Yemeis photo to my cousin to see if he is interested. If he is, she will show my cousins photo to Yemei. If Yemei also likes him. She could arrange to go on a date.

Study English from realize everything around us

I always found something around i feel very familiar, but i can't spell them in English. so my oral english is not goodwe all try to find a good method to study english well ,why we can't study english from realize everything around ours in daily life? it may be suit for us ,after all ,we have know the basic english of something around us and then we can use them ,so i do a try from now on .

Sunny /Cloudy Rainy Windy
Garderobe
Clotheshorse
Computer desk
Toothbrush
Toothpaste
Washcloth /Facecloth /Towel
Washbasin
Bed
Quilt
Pillow
Coverlet(bed sheet)
Dining table
Water fountain/ Drinking fountain / Water dispenser
Mineral water
Pure water
Juice
Electric cooker
Chinese brush and writing brush
Ink
Calligraphy and painting
Drawer
Gas pot
Water heater
Bucket
Pail
Gas range

The Tears befor you boyfriend

Girls ! When you tears are not useful befor your boyfriend, please don't cry again befor him! You can get away from him. Cause he can not know you sadness from your tears! he can't undstand why you so easy to cry! Some times, the man think why you alway just cry, and feel boring.... Please get away from this kind of man!

Good Luck for you!

firm in my mind

I want to a determined man ,I still best of my time to accomplish my goal.But it seems more different than I would have though possibly.A few day ago I always follow my plan to do everyday's countine even I feel boring and nevious,but I still lost myself when I face up with the tempation of my surroundings.At that time I looks like another person and I can't control myself,perhaps in my mind I have defaultedthis.The tempation is so powerful for I can't resist it so I falled such as when I find a wonderful novel I can't help to stop read it.It is so great and I want to know its contents at once,so I read and read then I fall in and never back.When I find the true purpose of my learing it is too late ,there is no time left.Last night I forget what I should do completely ,that make me feel guilty and I want to remedy.However I see the past was the past which I can get again,which I can do now is to learn from this experience and prevent it happen again.I am a ordinary people and I have many shortcomings which I really need a lot of determination,strengh and courage to come over it.Therefore even I have try my best to conpuer it ,it also might will come back.So the firmness in my mind is so important that can support me go through all of this so that the failure can't defeated me completely ,I will stand up again with my firm spirity.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

The Price

I went to play basketball with Mhon, he was a happy man, though something made him not perfect, I liked to stay with him. He always gave me a reason to smile, which meant so much to me, especially right now. I did not want to lost in the unhappy emotion too long. Some thing you could not change, and somebody would not come back, absolutely and forever. Whatever I did only made me feel much worse. So why not to be brave to accept it and restart your life? It still a long way to go. Even without the people you wanted, you could do it yourself.
It was a joyful time, though it was cold acctually. In the end, Mhon's friend bought some cans of Byway, which was very cold. After the basketball, we drank together. I found it some kind of happiness and sorrow. Happy to have know a new friend, sorrow to pick up my old friends. They were not here with me, and surely I knew, most of them would be forgotten in the near future.
I had no word about that. If I could treat it as the price of growth, I got no choice. But, as the people would stay with me, I will cherish them to no more.

Happy today to myself ()

Why have so many festivals to celebrate? Among all festivals, it seems that todays festival belongs to me a real woman. Why has such a special date for us on earth? It must have its history reason, as a female, some emotional in such a special date indeed.

As a woman, am I happy? Am I successful? Do I attach to my husband? Do I make all done well? Sometimes I think why I have such a high even perfect require to myself, Im only an ordinary woman, living an ordinary life as other housewives. Why must I require myself doing better? Why cant I aim myself with only accomplishing my life routines such as cooking washing taking care of kids? Do I feel happy with busy work and learning? Am I really a so strong woman instead of a weak little bird linking all her happiness with husband? Oh, maybe I m really not a weak bird in spirit though my temper is kind and soft, but from inner heart, an independent woman? maybe.

If I have no work and no any learning, just idle except houseworks, what a life style will it be? Maybe I will enjoy such a loose simple life when I will have retired from my work someday. But if the date is really coming, whether can I feel Im really old? Whether can I take care of my grandbaby like those grandmas? Ahaaa.., what a funny future! Oh, Im going on the way to be an future old grandma? Maybe. Its really no tense any longer, but am I happy leading such a easy life? Difficult to imagine indeed now, funny and odd future..

Whether past now or future, tense or loose, busy or idle, today is our festival, so happy to myself, to all of us female friends too. Another girl and guy moved me too here today, taking this festival's opportunity, send all my sincere best wishes to those friends who care me in the strange boundless cyber world, your warm greetings let me think of those friends who wrote their blessing on my birthday blog.

Remember a saying at all current and future todays : Happy today to myself...

Some articles I recommend

You know that I subscribe an English newspaper called 21st century every year. I like reading English newspaper, which gives my study a hand. A good idea comes to me that I would like to recommend you some good articles from English newspaper. Lets study English together.

Brand name battles
Those who like to play with words are clever, or consider themselves clever. Playing with word in trademark registration , however, might bring you trouble or even a lawsuit.
Us basketball legend Michael Jordan filed a lawsuit against Chinese company Qiaodan sports last week for unauthorized use of his name. The company denied the accusation.
We just use a Chinese translation of a common foreign family name and it cannot be identified with Michael Jordan, said Hou Lihong, the companys public relations manager.
Jordan and his lawyer are waiting for the courts reply. But experts have said Jordans lawsuit may be difficult to win.
Chinas law states that a trademark shall not conflict with any prior right acquired by another person. The first to use is a globally recognized principle.
In this sense, Qiaodan sports use of the name is legal in china
But the Chinese companys actions may constitute an act of unfair competition, said Fu Minrong, a lawyer of Xinwenhui Law Firm in Shanghai, because company profits from making connections between its brand and Michael Jordan.
A marketing institute based in Shanghai surveyed 400 young people in 2009. About 90 percent of respondents thought Qiaodan sports belong to Michael Jordan, the Beijing Daily reported.
No winner
Even if Jordan loses the lawsuit, Chinese brands such as Qiaodan are not winner either.
The case reflects a big problem for Chinese brands-copycatting, commented the Beijing Business Today.
At first, such brands would feel happy for free boarding (benefiting from the popularity of products or brands they copycat), commented the newspaper. When they are influential and rich enough to get rid of the stigma, theyll find it too hard.
Critics point out that Qiaodan sports reputation and sales would receive a big blow, as customers are unwilling to be labeled as common buyers of copycat goods.
Trademark preemptive registration is a global issue, in some cases, it even has become a tool of business competition.
Shaolin temple, for instance, found in 2004 that more than 1000 brands containing Shaolin had been registered without the approval of the temple in the US Japan and Europe
To deal with that, the temple set up the Henan Shaolin Temple Industrial Development Co, to protect the temples intellectual property rights, Xinhua news agency reported.
The company has registered about 100 Shaolin-related brands in China and has applied to register Shaolin brands in over 100 countries, Xinhua said.
Companies with a global vision are fully aware of the importance of trademarks.
Although Facebook is inaccessible on the Chinese mainland, it has registered two Chinese trademarks in 2011 and an English trademark in 2007.

the end of a story

Nobody knew the man had a talent in perception .When he was in danger .He used the inborn to tell what was behind the doors. After that , he felt despairing because the king is so barbaric that there are two tigers behind the doors .Whichever he selects the one of the two doors.He can't be save. Audiences knows the king's scheme feeling. Fooled by the king and angry .Then they killed the king together and recommended the handsome man to be the king because of his brave and his handsome as well.

Monday, April 9, 2012

Reading books

Recently I am reading a book called 'man shui liu shui[]'It based on this specially history of the cultural revolution in our country.At that time a woman's story which telling her a whole life.From now I learn from her much is the attitude to life.This woman always has a good attitude even when her grandmother was tyrannised by a spy and she was called 'son of bitch'.You konw her was only a child but she can afford it and try to find ways to go through it.Later she and her best friend who give her a new identity to live in city without the impression of her grandmother went into the village.Then this woman look forward and go ahead,soon she got honor and respect of this village.However there was other thing happeded,her best friend fall in love with a young man and the girl also had a baby,but all of this the man did't konw and this couldn't accept by that society.So the girl give birth to the baby secretly.But this thing still spread out that the leader also know .Then the leader think it is the man's fault thougt the girl explained that she was willing to do it without any force and they love each other.But the leader didn't moved even the girl was kneeed to ask forgive.Later the man was killed and the woman and her best friend meet a lot of indifferent and reproch,their life was so hard.But I admire that woman still try to coutribute herself to the village and her friend all by heart.I admire the attitude to life and people.I know in her mind she also feel life is not fair that she did so much but got so less.On the edege of life she never give up never lose hope ,she try to do best by all the time for the village she loving.She is a female hero and great woman .I will make her as my medol.

On the way

Yesterday one of my friend with her husband visited us.We live in the same city,but we haven't seen each other for more than one year. We are all busy working ,so we don't have enough time to meet.
We had a good time yesterday, we talked about our lives,past and future.
Severals years ago ,we were students,at that time we had lesson together,after class we hung out together,and we didn't worried our future, we thought our future must be nice.
When we graduated ,we began to find work, this was a difficult process.We realized the future wasn't nice like we thought. slowly we began accept the reality, but we always believe our future would be better after our hard working.
Now we all have our own work , we are married and have happy family, more important our dream is on the way.
In the next years we plan to be born babies to make our family more successfulDuring the period we will share the happiness and sad,and more we will treasure our friendship!

the death of Mike

I love you once, I love you twice, and I love you more than beans and rice.
When I heard this poet his wife Susan quoted, which Mike read to her at their wedding night, my eyes brimmed with tears, and pain gathered in my heart. Their love story was not so shocking or shaking, it was quite normal but really touching.
A devoiced woman and a man who bereaved his beloved one met each other at a friends funeral, and actually said goodbye to the other part also at a funeral, unfortunately, at his own funeral.
The last scene I remembered is that in a quiet noon, they both sat in their yard and did some casual talking; Susan asked him, Mike, when will you fix my post box over the fence?
Tomorrow.
Oh, tomorrow, another tomorrow? she smiled and patted his head.
Both of them were happy.
But there is no tomorrow for Mike.
The last season of DH, we get more than just plot.
Who can say we learn nothing from soap opera?

Craze for being civil servant

As we known ,many people are scrambling to apply for taking the nationwide government recruitment exam .in my pinion ,there are many factors contributing to this phenomenon .first and formost ,the real attraction of the civil servant post lies in its stability ,decency ,high salary and perfect welfare system .in addition ,with the expansion of university and college ,many students can't find an ideal job upon graduation , therefore , taking the nationwide government recruitment exam is an alternative for them .
Given the above analysis which i have just outlined .it's high time that measures should be taken to cool this craze down .i think our government and the enterprises should work together to creat more job opportunities each year for the university graduates .chinese young men are facing too much difficulties than before .

my daydream

I have not written something on it for a long time.Just now I watched a movie called Tangled.It's so comical and interesting that it amuses me all the time.Tell you the truth,I haven't been so joyful as I was just now for several days.Indeed,fairy tales are nice and like my dreamland.In the world of a fairy tale,it seems as if there is no something sorrowful.At the end of each fairy tale,it can be described as a happy life that the prince and princess lived forever.I desire to live a happy life just like what happens in the fairy tale.Maybe you guys may define me a fantast.And I know my daydream will never ever realize.Fairy tale is fairy tale.Reality can't replace the fairy tale. Now,many people characterize the reality with the word"luthless".Anyone may encounter numerous obstacles and be faced with huge pressure.So am I.And it seems that worry is like one of my friends which I really can't keep away from.It always annoys me and makes me in bad mood.I'm not a sentimental girl.So I indeed don't know why I have to worry about something which seems unimportant and unrealistic.And that's why I very very desire to turn my real life into a fairy tale.You know there is no worries and sadness in the fairy-tale world.
Maybe wnat I'm saying above is a little exaggerating.But I think there is someone else who wants to live a happy life which appears in a fairy tale.

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

I just want to write a short note today to say Im trying to become more active here. I enjoyed helping folks learn English while I learn Chinese. If anyone wants to help me write my book, see my last blog. Im using speech recognition software in trying to learn how to speak quickly and very clearly so the software can pick up the words Im saying. Im becoming more and more convinced I will be able to write faster by speaking than by typing. That also allows my wrists to rest. If you want me to look at a blog of yours, send me a note and all try to check it out.

Obsession

Obsessions are funny things. Good ones could channel all your energies, attentions into one spot until you are shone with a bright lighter, burn with a hotter fire, it lifts you to a higher plane of life, but unhealthy ones can definite drag you down to the hell, ruin your entire life. Dealing with it is like dealing with any addiction, you need to know where to draw the line, where to point it and shout to yourself: DANGER, DONT CROSS IT!

Really, everything is about control.

For the last month, I have been obsessed with Oversea-Buy (or so called ). Obsession might be a strong word, but whatever, I always has some potentiality to be a shopaholic, especially for net shopping. Id been badgered by C about Oversea-Buy for quite a long time. There are always two topics to make C talk: One, her adorable two-year-old, Second, Oversea-Buy. In fact, thats pretty the same thing. She almost ordered everything for her son from oversea shopping website; consequently she has become one of those experts. I didnt give a try until last month, perhaps thats because deep inside my heart, I know I would open another Pandora's Box.

Oversea-Buy, from my experiences in last month, can be alluring, tempting as well as very annoying. Its definitely something to test your patience. For a person like me who is pretty much spoiled by quick deliver service in Taobao, I found waiting period for an oversea order almost heart-wrenching. Luck for me, soon after I started my adventure in Oversea-Buy, I ran into the famous Two Sessions, which extended the already excruciating long period for custom clearance to almost an eternity. Every morning, I logged in to check tracking information of my orders but always found nothing update, thats really sulks.

However its always great when an expected package finally arrived. Each time, I felt like a child at the Christmas. Today, I got three, I cant help but beaming at these three rumpled boxes, even none of them are for myself. Many friends found Oversea-Buy too complicate and rather demanding, therefore they come to me for help. Its a cure to my addiction, a way to cool down my over-heated spending fever, so why not? A win-win situation.

Sunday, April 8, 2012

In the name of love [3] []

In the name of love [3] []

Jenny was a rangy girl. She was not a belle at all and looked lethargic and aloof because of her illness. It was easy for David to recognize her among the crowd as her respirator was as white as snow. Besides, she deliberately wore a bright red dress which expressed her blind faith. Her luggage was simple, a small suitcase.
David bought a bundle of red rose on the way designedly. He called Jenny when he saw her through the taxi windshield. As soon as she answered his call, David burst out of the taxi and ran up to her with the rose in hand and a beaming on face.
David had a typical northeastern mans frame. A massive skull above broad shoulders, he was a tall and muscular man. Though he didnt doll him up beforehand, he looked young and somewhat smashing. He outstretched his robust arms hugging Jenny tightly. She felt as if she had melted in his warm bosom.
Why didnt you tell me your plan earlier? If you did, I would have made a full preparation. Anyway, you have given me a big surprise and I enjoy it, honey. Davids plausible capacity found its buyer. Jenny had forgotten where she was as it was her debut love.
Do you remember your promise to me, David? Jenny asked shyly.
What did I promise you? David pretended to be silly smirking.
You know it. Dont baffle me, please. Jenny said quietly.
Ah! You didnt mean it, did you? David felt his self-worth had been fulfilled. Dont worry. I am a man of my word. But you swat me so soon that I have no time to react, you naughty girl. By the way, this is for you. He showed her the flower while embracing her one-handedly.
Thank you, David. How lovely it is! Jenny felicitated that her trip was worthwhile.
Come on, sweet. Lets come back home. David picked up Jennys luggage walking her to the parking lot where they took a taxi.

Life in China is tough . Life for newly-graduated students is tough .

Life in China is tough . Life for newly-graduated students is tough .

I will graduate from university in June of this year. At the moment, I am interning in a company working as English assistant. Sometimes I feel stressed out. In order to comport myself, I tell myself that the more the pressure the greater the power. But I still have many obstacles to overcome.
I want to live alone. It means that I should rent a single room, about 10m2 with bathroom and kitchen. Not too big, but still expensive. Undoubtedly it will cost me a big fortune. What s more, I am preparing for TOEFL. It is another large amount,. Except for daisy necessary expenses, some money for leisure activities is required. Oh, my Gosh! How can I afford it? To crown it all, due to the inflation, the commodity prices are biting. And it seems that we cant see the ending. So everyone who lives in China have to make every endeavor to save the spending. Especially, for newly-graduated students. No experience, no higher salary. Now and then ,we work like cows. Make much milk for a company, but eat only a little grass.

Cheer up. And Happy Womens Day to every girl.

Many things

Last week, after a long struggle with myself, I finally bought a new MP3 player....Emotion defeats reason again.

Today I finished an English novel named The Women of Brewster Place, a black novel, a woman novel. By far, I have read four English books this year: A Study in Scarlet, The Old Man and the Sea, An Experiment in Criticism and this one.

My next target is The Odyssey by Homer. My interest in antient Greek literature was aroused by a lecture on western drama given by a professor in the Chinese department. He gave lectures in Chinese, but now I am going to read some in English. Since the texts are originally written in antient Greek, both Chinese version and English version are translated, they are equal for me. Actually, the Chinese lecture really teaches me a lot. Some deep thoughts can only be expressed in one's native language.

Oh, yes, I am watching "Modern Family". It is hilarious!