These days, marriage is a problem to both man and woman. The number of man is bigger, however, choice seems to be a problem to woman. I have two female colleagues SZ and LX. SZ turns left and LX turns right, I dont know which way is right, but neither of them has a happy life.
LX left our company winter, suddenly I heard she got married with a guy in a week. In another word, she met the guy for the first time only a week before her marriage. Using her own words, age is the biggest enemy of woman. She was twenty-six years old, which was also at the tail of youth. She had to be in a hurry to get married before she was too old. She even wrote an article in her QQ zone and said she got married for the sake of marriage without love. Her husband knew it too and didnt care because he agreed to get married for the sake of marriage itself. They could live together by the bonding of a marriage certificate.
SZ was thirty years old and said she wouldnt get married until she met Mr. Right, or else she wouldnt get married even though she was fifty years old, however, she was unhappy too, maybe too sensitive to see happy couples. SZ kept complaining everything around her wasnt good, I didnt think so. Maybe she couldnt bear the loneliness of waiting for the right people and the pressure of her family and friends. Because in the society today, if you dont get married under a marriage age, other people will look at you with strange eyes.
No matter what direction, as long as you choose, you have to insist on your own choice. After all, happiness is your own feeling, other people cant feel it. Some people are thought to be happy, but actually sad; Some people are thought to be sad, but actually happy.